IC,icfrugal1 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 15, 2017 3:55 pm are you ever so mad at someone that you can't even remember why ?
I am so mad at DH.
He had a very bad day yesterday, his BS was high in the morning when it was measured, he took some insulin.
He went with me to the rental, I was driving and he hates it when I drive, but if I drive then he can wear his knee braces and use his cane. On the trip up he spent it telling me how to drive, "you are to close to this car that car, should be in another lane etc."
After the inspection (Terimix) we drove to a nice cafe for a sandwich, then the trip home.
The traffic was very bad on the way home, no surprise, any way DH started saying that he was sick, he said that he was car sick, he DOES get car sick. I got off the freeway and he rested for a while and I took back streets home.
earlier in the day I had been invited to my neighbors 6th grade play. The family is so nice and I adore the 6th grader, I made it to the play just in time and had a good time.
I had been driving,with my bad hip, for over 3 hours, so after I parked the car I was really limping. A couple of kids, as I was walking up to the auditorium started walking like me, making fun of me. They stopped because I was looking at them. Who does that????? This morning I told DH that I thought that it was because the tRump had given them permission, remember tRump making fun of the news man? DH started giving me an earful of why that was not true, I told him that I was not going to listen to him. DH thinks that it's because kids have no manners, true, but I do feel the tRump has given permission for that kind of behavior.
So long story short I got home and DH was sick, we tested his BS and his meter couldn't even measure it, that means that it was over 600. He took some insulin and we measured first every 1/2 for a few hours then the last measurement after midnight, DH asked me to stay in the family room last night so I did. I was sleeping up stories since I found the web site that DH had joined a few months ago.
I had to give BB her last walk about 12:30am last night because I couldn't leave DH along for awhile.
Today, I have to give BB her afternoon walk at 2pm because I need to leave at 3pm to get to the Dr for my blood infusion. The infusion will take at least 2 hours, I'll be home late.
I told DH not to come with me. At this point I may be cutting off my nose to spite my face. I had a phone attp from one of the Dr today and I didn't have DH on the line, normally I do. I don't understand medical stuff. Oh well.
I have arranged for DH and his sister to meet for a late lunch tomorrow, I don't want to go. I would like them to try to get some closeness,
IC
Thank you all for listening.
(((Hugs)))
I somewhat understand what you go through because my dad was very mean to my mom at times. Like you, she stayed with him and she loved him.
Take care of yourself. Put on some relaxing or holiday music and maybe have a glass of wine.