the service was held for DH's brother yesterday, it was very nice.
He is going to be cremated, SIL bought an urn for some of the ashes and she is going to have it buried with her.
It's ok with the son for SIL (his aunt) to have the ashes.
No one is asking me, but I think that it's creepy.
on the other hand Dog's ashes (RIP 2016) will be buried with DH and I.
any thoughts?
I'm not giving my thoughts to DH, I don't know if she is going to tell him
DH is also having a hard time with his brothers' death.
IC
is it me, or is this creepy?(death and cremation)
Re: is it me, or is this creepy?(death and cremation)
IC, I am conf\used. Is the SIL that you mention the sibling of the deceased?
"All his life he tried to be a good person. Many times, however, he failed. After all, he was only human. He wasn't a dog."
Charles M. Schultz
Charles M. Schultz
Re: is it me, or is this creepy?(death and cremation)
sorry, yes, his sister.
after their mother died last year, 2 brothers (one with his girlfriend) and the sister, (with her husband) lived at the mobile home that their mother left.
The brother and sister were looking after the brother who just died.
IC
after their mother died last year, 2 brothers (one with his girlfriend) and the sister, (with her husband) lived at the mobile home that their mother left.
The brother and sister were looking after the brother who just died.
IC
-
- Posts: 11446
- Joined: Fri Aug 28, 2015 9:21 am
Re: is it me, or is this creepy?(death and cremation)
oh I want to be cremated and my ashes placed with my mom and dad - along with my military brass plaque.
Nothing wrong with cremation in my view. Heck the Catholic church just okayed it a few years ago. But even if they had not - that was how I would go!!
Nothing wrong with cremation in my view. Heck the Catholic church just okayed it a few years ago. But even if they had not - that was how I would go!!
Re: is it me, or is this creepy?(death and cremation)
Is the cremation that you find crazy or the burial of the remains or the fact that its the sister. Sometimes people use the word burial instead of internment but I see no issue with the above.
Re: is it me, or is this creepy?(death and cremation)
If I understand it, Sister wants to be buried in a casket, with the urn containing her Brother's ashes inside the casket along with her?
I don't see anything wrong or strange about that. She loved her brother, and took care of him. She sees this as continuing to care for him, and they won't be lonely.
There are cases where a parent is buried with a small child or infant, if they died together. Or two infants together. Sharing with an urn is the same, IMO.
I don't see anything wrong or strange about that. She loved her brother, and took care of him. She sees this as continuing to care for him, and they won't be lonely.
There are cases where a parent is buried with a small child or infant, if they died together. Or two infants together. Sharing with an urn is the same, IMO.
ohjodi