You have a way with wordscolonialgirl wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 5:07 amBut I think you should tell your sibling to go piss up a rope.
Clem - is your sib ALWAYS mean? To cut a friend off because her husband is ill is just plain cruel.
You have a way with wordscolonialgirl wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 5:07 amBut I think you should tell your sibling to go piss up a rope.
Maybe they are just weird. They think that she is strange because she will take trips by herself with her other out of state friends. I'm sure if her hubby told her to stay home, she would.SandiSAHM wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 2:48 pmYou have a way with wordscolonialgirl wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 5:07 amBut I think you should tell your sibling to go piss up a rope.
Clem - is your sib ALWAYS mean? To cut a friend off because her husband is ill is just plain cruel.
Isn't it amazing how easy it is for others to sit on the side-lines and make judgements about others when they wouldn't think twice about leaving a loved one. Your sisters, if that is who is making these remarks are proof of that. Rinty, I love you, never heard that expression before, but how fitting in this case@@@@.clemencia2us wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 4:49 pmMaybe they are just weird. They think that she is strange because she will take trips by herself with her other out of state friends. I'm sure if her hubby told her to stay home, she would.SandiSAHM wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 2:48 pmYou have a way with wordscolonialgirl wrote: ↑Sun Oct 21, 2018 5:07 amBut I think you should tell your sibling to go piss up a rope.
Clem - is your sib ALWAYS mean? To cut a friend off because her husband is ill is just plain cruel.
I tell them to keep an open mind and not everyone is like them
Heck these are the same gals that took off on an overnight shopping trip while OUR mother was dying in the hospital. Now that i was totally mad at them and let them know it. So there is a disconnect there too.
Keep asking her! My husband has been unable to get out much this yr due to extreme anemia issues. It has been going on for ay least 3 yrs. so bad that it has caused what they thought was dementia, along with falls he was so weak. Many times I had to call for help to get him up. Finally, a new gastro dr found he had fatty liver, causing bleeding. I got out some as dd was here to stay with him, in case he fell. Always within call distant and close by.clemencia2us wrote: ↑Sat Oct 20, 2018 2:17 pm OhJodi - she rarely declines.
The thing is that some people in our little group think we should stop asking her.
That she should stay at home 24/7 with her ill spouse.
I just think that we should give her the option. She does go out and do things with others and then they just tsk, tsk, tsk.